PD: You waited nearly a decade to begin truly branding “Tony Gentilcore.” What are the pros and cons of waiting as long as you did, and would you approach it differently if you could go back in time?
TG:
Pros: I didn’t propose to my wife until four years into our relationship. We got married at year five.
You can only imagine how many times we were asked, five months in, “soooo, are you two gonna get married?” from our parents, friends, and acquaintances.
We allowed ample time for our relationship to marinate, develop, and to figure stuff out. I mean, shit got real when we moved in together and adopted a cat. But we had a lot of tough discussions about finances, family stuff, and why I suck at washing dishes before we decided to get married. We had to duke things out to a degree.
When we were ready, we were ready. We were all in. And I feel our relationship is all the better for it.
In the same vein, with regards to my career, I waited until I was truly, 100% ready before I decided to take a big leap and venture off on my own.
Mind you, I started writing/blogging/website shenanigans back in 2006. I’ve written over 1700 blog posts, hundreds of articles for various websites and magazines, and only now, 15 years into my career, that I feel I’m kinda-sorta ready to maybe write an ebook or produce a fitness product.
I just had my first t-shirt made and there are some trainers who haven’t been in the industry more than six months who are releasing books.
I’ve spent 10 years “building a brand within a brand,” which has helped tremendously and helped to soften the thud of the “WTF did I just do” moment in the initial days of leaving CSP.
We opened CSP in 2007. Business is not my strong suit. I still have a hard time differentiating between the terms net and gross income. But I had eight years watching and listening to you and Eric talk business…I absorbed a lot.
That’s a pretty baller “pro” if you ask me.
Cons: I don’t really have any, other than having to listen to Eric play “Linkin Park” radio on Pandora for so many years. My ears can’t stop bleeding.
PD: What’s been your biggest and most unexpected challenge since leaving CSP to be a one-man show?
TG: I miss being around the staff. Part of what made CSP so valuable was the immense amount of learning I was immersed in. The opportunity to talk shop and bounce ideas off the other coaches is what helped keep me sharp. Sure, I know a thing or two about a thing or two, but having the day-to-day contact with the coaches and staff at CSP is priceless and something I really miss.
I don’t miss Tank….;o)